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Discussion: Dr. ATRL - On Break!
Member Since: 2/9/2008
Posts: 32,819
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Originally posted by ashuduff
Eli, you're a top?
But I don't want a relationship. At least I don't think I do. And sometimes i just need to get ****ed or suck a dick. Life is so complicated with sex.
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I think so...
I'm surprised, you seem like such a romantic to me. You're an artist, you compliment people, you take responsibility and keep up your friendships. Maybe you don't want a relationship with anybody you know but you want something more than what you have.
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Member Since: 5/3/2010
Posts: 26,013
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Originally posted by deemy
I have to plan my sex because I steal people's men. I live on a schedule.
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sis how old are you?
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Member Since: 10/5/2006
Posts: 9,829
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Originally posted by Hi.Ðefinitiøn
*Sighs*
Alright, here goes. As Cookie stated earlier he isn't attracted to men and wants a family. I'm the exact same way except for lack of interest in men. I'm obviously attracted to men since I'm with one and have sex with one.
Now my problem is that I really want a family. I've always wanted a family. I'm bisexual, but I've always had a plan to eventually get married to a woman and have several kids. Years ago I had made this plan that I would never fall romantically for another man, I'd simply just use them for sexual purposes, and after several years of toying with them I'd eventually settle down with a woman and have kids.
My plans have backfired. Fast forward a few years later I met the guy I'm with now. I've been with him for over 2 years and I really love him. Now you see my problem. None of this was part of my plan. I didn't take this situation into equation. As far as marriage is concerned, ugh. I can obviously have still kids, but I want my own biological children. I don't want to adopt, and I don't want to give my sperm away to some random woman. I want to have kids with a woman I truly love and admire.
IDK what the **** to do.
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You're in love with him now, but will you be in the future? Things happen. The way I see it, you should stop planning so much and just live everyday like it's your last. Eventually you'll have to make a decision; do I want to leave him behind for my own desires? But only time and experience will help you make that decision so make sure you cherish every moment with him!
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
Posts: 38,919
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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
He never really laugh or smile with others but often do so with me. We always tease each other, physically and speaking. I don't know. It's too confusing.  |
Well he obviously gets all giddy inside whenever he's alone with you. Get that dick. 
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Originally posted by deemy
I have to plan my sex because I steal people's men. I live on a schedule.
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Member Since: 9/21/2010
Posts: 29,122
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Originally posted by Hi.Ðefinitiøn
*Sighs*
Alright, here goes. As Cookie stated earlier he isn't attracted to men and wants a family. I'm the exact same way except for lack of interest in men. I'm obviously attracted to men since I'm with one and have sex with one.
Now my problem is that I really want a family. I've always wanted a family. I'm bisexual, but I've always had a plan to eventually get married to a woman and have several kids. Years ago I had made this plan that I would never fall romantically for another man, I'd simply just use them for sexual purposes, and after several years of toying with them I'd eventually settle down with a woman and have kids.
My plans have backfired. Fast forward a few years later I met the guy I'm with now. I've been with him for over 2 years and I really love him. Now you see my problem. None of this was part of my plan. I didn't take this situation into equation. As far as marriage is concerned, ugh. I can obviously have still kids, but I want my own biological children. I don't want to adopt, and I don't want to give my sperm away to some random woman. I want to have kids with a woman I truly love and admire.
IDK what the **** to do.
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 Me and you need to talk privately. Its important. just not right here and right now.
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Member Since: 10/18/2009
Posts: 18,756
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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
There were people watching! I just couldn't! |
ok nevermind. that actually forgivable since yall werent alone...... sis if you ever going to get the same oppunity again, u will not take it for granted like last time. sis u will go for that. what is the worst consequence you can get? lose him as a friend or get him as a bOYFRIEND? you're gawn gamble for dat!
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Member Since: 9/21/2010
Posts: 29,122
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Originally posted by ririgagalover
sis how old are you? |
how old the guy wants me to be. But im only 18 though.
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Member Since: 6/7/2009
Posts: 15,638
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Originally posted by deemy
OH boyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
I need a long day with you to help you.
he wants you to suck it so badly. That nikkuh want to choke you with his dick.
Follow my procedures.
next time your face is at least 8 inches from his dick. Dont be hesitant to go for it. Once you get o it he not gonna make u stop.
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It was closer than 8 inches.
And the blanket was off.
Sure, only if we were alone.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
Posts: 38,919
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Originally posted by ashuduff
You're in love with him now, but will you be in the future? Things happen. The way I see it, you should stop planning so much and just live everyday like it's your last. Eventually you'll have to make a decision; do I want to leave him behind for my own desires? But only time and experience will help you make that decision so make sure you cherish every moment with him!
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This is the longest relationship I've ever been in. It'll be 3 years come a few months. What's strange is that a few months ago when he took me out to dinner he brought up marriage, although we both agreed that it would happen after we've both graduated college and have our careers. I still can't even believe I agreed to that. After that he got up and went to bathroom, and I started tearing up and ****. I don't even know why.
I definitely have ZERO intentions of breaking up with him, but I still want a ****ing family. Ugh.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
Posts: 38,919
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Originally posted by deemy
Me and you need to talk privately. Its important. just not right here and right now. |
Sure, about what?
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Member Since: 9/21/2010
Posts: 29,122
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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
Don't make me feel bad because it's actually bad enough to not grab the opportunity. I was just not sure, was he joking around or was he serious? You just don't know with this kid. |
i understand.
But all things aside. Does it look big. What size boxers was there and did it generate heat. If a guy dick is warm you know........................ 
Its gonna be fire inside ya!!
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ATRL Senior Member
Member Since: 6/15/2007
Posts: 29,795
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Originally posted by Hi.Ðefinitiøn
*Sighs*
Alright, here goes. As Cookie stated earlier he isn't attracted to men and wants a family. I'm the exact same way except for lack of interest in men. I'm obviously attracted to men since I'm with one and have sex with one.
Now my problem is that I really want a family. I've always wanted a family. I'm bisexual, but I've always had a plan to eventually get married to a woman and have several kids. Years ago I had made this plan that I would never fall romantically for another man, I'd simply just use them for sexual purposes, and after several years of toying with them I'd eventually settle down with a woman and have kids.
My plans have backfired. Fast forward a few years later I met the guy I'm with now. I've been with him for over 2 years and I really love him. Now you see my problem. None of this was part of my plan. I didn't take this situation into equation. As far as marriage is concerned, ugh. I can obviously have still kids, but I want my own biological children. I don't want to adopt, and I don't want to give my sperm away to some random woman. I want to have kids with a woman I truly love and admire.
IDK what the **** to do.
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I just wanna do this 
Do you have any woman friend who you love and admire who would possibly accept to it? It'd be weird to ask but you never know
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Member Since: 2/9/2008
Posts: 32,819
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Originally posted by Crank_It_Up
We all were at the dorm for the night and decided to room together. So do you really think I would do anything far with him?  |
How did you even get away with cuddling in your underwear then?
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Member Since: 9/21/2010
Posts: 29,122
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Originally posted by Hi.Ðefinitiøn
Sure, about what?
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About what you just posted.
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Member Since: 6/7/2009
Posts: 15,638
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Originally posted by khlovess
ok nevermind. that actually forgivable since yall werent alone...... sis if you ever going to get the same oppunity again, u will not take it for granted like last time. sis u will go for that. what is the worst consequence you can get? lose him as a friend or get him as a bOYFRIEND? you're gawn gamble for dat!
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I'm kinda worried of what would happen if I actually did go for it. Maybe I would ruin my life, he would just murder me (he's muscular as hell) and might tell everybody that I'm gay and then everybody wouldn't hang around with me anymore or even talk to me. I won't want to risk it.
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Member Since: 10/5/2006
Posts: 9,829
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Originally posted by Hi.Ðefinitiøn
This is the longest relationship I've ever been in. It'll be 3 years come a few months. What's strange is that a few months ago when he took me out to dinner he brought up marriage, although we both agreed that it would happen after we've both graduated college and have our careers. I still can't even believe I agreed to that. After that he got up and went to bathroom, and I started tearing up and ****. I don't even know why.
I definitely have ZERO intentions of breaking up with him, but I still want a ****ing family. Ugh.
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Eli's post has the answers.
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Member Since: 6/4/2010
Posts: 38,919
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Originally posted by Matty
I just wanna do this
Do you have any woman friend who you love and admire who would possibly accept to it? It'd be weird to ask but you never know |
Thx. 
I've had girlfriends in the past and I have female friends now who are attractive, but I'm not trying to get them pregnant and marry them or anything, lol. I can't do that. It has to be someone I meet, develop a strong mental and physical bond with, and fall in love with.
It may never happen though. Ashduff is right, I need to stop planning my life.
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Member Since: 6/7/2009
Posts: 15,638
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Originally posted by deemy
i understand.
But all things aside. Does it look big. What size boxers was there and did it generate heat. If a guy dick is warm you know........................
Its gonna be fire inside ya!! |
I saw him naked before. It looks good.
The boxers are tight-fitting.
Stop it, you're making me nervous!
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Member Since: 2/9/2008
Posts: 32,819
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Originally posted by Hi.Ðefinitiøn
This is the longest relationship I've ever been in. It'll be 3 years come a few months. What's strange is that a few months ago when he took me out to dinner he brought up marriage, although we both agreed that it would happen after we've both graduated college and have our careers. I still can't even believe I agreed to that. After that he got up and went to bathroom, and I started tearing up and ****. I don't even know why.
I definitely have ZERO intentions of breaking up with him, but I still want a ****ing family. Ugh.
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If you do end up staying with him, just have a gay family. Blood connection won't mean much when you raise kids from infancy. They'll still be your kids and you'll still fall madly in love with being their father.
I wouldn't give up on true love just to have a nuclear family if I were bi. You'd be so lucky to find another you feel this way about.
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Member Since: 6/7/2009
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Originally posted by eli's_rhythm
How did you even get away with cuddling in your underwear then?
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I wasn't in my underwear. He was in his underwear. 
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