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Originally posted by NX127
Masculine is a set of features and physical qualities, "closeted" is having not come out about your sexuality.
I'm really curious to know how either of the 2 things is associated with the other in your mind. You do realize that there have been athletes who came out, right?
What makes you think that I'm dying for something as personal as my sexuality to be exposed for everyone who has absolutely no business in it?
This is like saying you hate your body because you don't walk naked.
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They're mutually exclusive, darling.
Just because they're athletic, doesn't mean they're masculine (sort of problematic for you to suggest that). Describing yourself as "masc" or "fem" is problematic. Everything is on a spectrum if you are having sexual contact with a man you're at least a bit fem.
Wasn't really referring to you, though, didn't know you were a masc'd top'd gay. You don't have to tell anyone, your sexuality actually is other people's business, though! Being closeted mean you have to lie everytime someone asks "who are you dating?" and "when are you going to get a girlfriend?", you are living a lie. Obviously, if you're not safe coming out don't do it, but that's a different topic.
It makes it worse when you try to hide behind your lie but describing yourself as masc. "I'm gay, but i'm not a fudge packer
". It's internalised homophobia at it's finest.
She was so phenomenal of a performer in her first five or so years so it's actually really sad to think about how drastically and how quickly she declined honestly.
