Nope. It's not as difficult as you think. A lot of gay/bi people go to straight bars. Usually in those cases, they're not the annoying, flaming, flamboyant gays so it works out.
I'd think that. But do you ask them if they are gay/bi? Or can you both just tell?
I dont know what's Malice's problem these days. Like yeah you found God, but he never used to brag about selling coke like that any damn way. Push would boast, Malice would show remorse, it was a good balance.
Upsetting that balance is what made their last album so horrible.