I need a gut check here. I've been seeing a guy for 2 months - he's absolutely gorgeous and I've really fallen for him. But he also makes me really self-conscious and I constantly think "how can he even like me or be attracted to me?" Even though he constantly tells me I'm an amazing person and so handsome, etc.
I've started noticing that he always likes Facebook photos of guys who I think are way better looking than me. I'm not sure if he's dated/hooked up with them or if they're just friends. But every time I see it, I feel 10x worse about myself.
Is it reasonable for me to feel this way? Am I just being crazy and low self-esteem?
but you know how Instagram has that activity feed? It's probably worse if he was on IG doing that. At least you can distract yourself with other **** on Facebook [unless you're the one actively stalking his **** then that's your fault and you deserve to be in your feelings] There's no mute option either so you can't do that
never settle sis. If you feel something is up confront him about him. Also, be upfront with what it is you guys are. Because he may not think its as serious as you do so he finds no fault in doing what he doing. Have the conversation and afterwards, if you dont like the answer dip out.
Don't project your insecurities onto your relationship. He's with you for a reason. If you continue to let this be a problem, you may cause him to run off.
this. And i know it may seem like drastic measures, but if you have insecurities of that level, I suggest a therapist. Insecurities can really (and will) damage a relationship.
If he found you unattractive why would he be with you?
At the end of the day he chose you, unless you find actual evidence that he's cheating he's not.
It's just your self-esteem.
then that's your fault and you deserve to be in your feelings] There's no mute option either so you can't do that
never settle sis. If you feel something is up confront him about him. Also, be upfront with what it is you guys are. Because he may not think its as serious as you do so he finds no fault in doing what he doing. Have the conversation and afterwards, if you dont like the answer dip out.
