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Originally posted by Alejandrawrrr
Well it's not unreasonable to assume that if he's gone this far with a 5/10 body, he has no intention of changing it. Besides, I think in fairness the OP should be interpreted as two options who have no intention of changing their lifestyle - the hot body guy loves going to the gym or is an athlete/fitness model/bodybuilder by profession, so he'll stay up on it, and the 5/10 body dude has no intention of giving up the junk food and joining the gym It's too easy to say "I'll change him!"
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Originally posted by ks_dollar
But if I meet someone with a 6/10 body I'm not gonna be like "okay bitch go to the gym four times a week or you can't date me". That person probably doesn't go to or plan on going to a gym. The OP is pretty vague anyway so this doesn't really matter
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Yeah the OP doesn't say anything about that so I'm just trying to explain what I'm witnessing a lot. There's a line between being healthy and overweight. I'm gonna assume that 5/10 body is someone who's a little on the chubby side:
Option A: He's healthy + overweight, but can't lose them few pounds because he has no motivation, low self-esteem, shyness about going to the gym, depressed etc. (I've seen this a lot - if you are ex-fat/fat you know what I'm talking about) If this is the case, then a boyfriend can be the best thing. Body shouldn't be the first thing on your mind when dating someone, if everything is going good, you two are getting along well, then you can encourage him to start exercising.
Option B: He's unhealthy + overweight, doesn't plan on joining a gym, will continue to eat junk food and being lazy. Then he should be avoided because it's a terrible lifestyle.
How would you know which type of guy is someone when you first meet him? Well you can't know that, that's why I would like to see beyond the body when I first start dating someone. After a week or two spent with him, you can get a clear idea of what type of lifestyle he has.
And the whole point of this post is (
) you shouldn't just ignore and avoid a person overall if he doesn't have the best body.