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Originally posted by Walley
It's not called choosing a sex, it's called choosing a person. If you're BI, you obviously are going to end of having a long term partner, and that will be whoever you're happier with, whether it's a male or female. It has nothing to do with being confused about sexuality. If you're a gay man and your Bisexual boyfriend leaves you for a female, that's because you weren't a good partner, or they have commitment issues, it has nothing to do with their sexuality. That is, of course, if they are Truly bisexual and not just experimenting.
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This is true, but I think feelings similar to what Jody is trying to communicate could manifest after interacting with
supposed bisexuals (whether they are truly or not) in some regions (especially in urban environments where dating is fast and hookups are often). The misuse of the term can feel like many are indeed experimenting. This is especially apparent in the lesbian community. I think it stems partially from
incorrect use of the label, lack of understanding in general, and the same school of thought that feels bisexuality does not exist.
Either way, there's plenty of beautiful gay men that love men and only see themselves being with one. So I don't feel the need to mend my desires for one of that number. I respect those who are not, though.