Do you still lend money to people, whether its family or friends?
If so is there a limit?

Gurl ! i have learned not to lend money to friends - for me it just complicates everything.

Only to people I've known all my life, and never huge amounts.

Only to my dad and my boyfriend.

Never a lender or borrower be.

Only to those whom I trust and only if the reason for borrowing the money is valid

No and I also don't borrow.

Ch i lent money to my friend of 7+ years and now she been dodging me every time i subtly hint the money, its been a few months now - it was 10 dollars

i paid for her movie ticket

No. If they need money they can go collect cans or sell their *****.

Ain't no one but me and my bank touching my coinz

I pay for my friends tickets all the time

Yes and I am still waiting for the payment. Its been almost a year! Never again.

She blocked me on FB

I usually end up lending my friends a lot of money or just outright buying their meals, carting them around in my car with my gas when we hang out, etc. I'm probably not so wise for doing that since it really does build up.

thats the thing , i was willing to just give ha the money but she was like "No,no ill pay you back, its only right" "Trust me ill pay you back"

Onika was right

and its like so awkward asking for it back.


Kiiii , how much was it?

Nooooo. 9/10 times even though it's a "loan" it's really a gift and you're not getting it back.