No they're not but they don't give me any grief about it now. When I talk to my Grandma about it now she still says she doesn't accept it but I tell her I could care less for your opinion on my lifestyle so I just talk to my other Grandma about it. Me & my mom rarely communicate. I wouldn't have it any other way to be honest.
No they're not but they don't give me any grief about it now. When I talk to my Grandma about it now she still says she doesn't accept it but I tell her I could care less for your opinion on my lifestyle so I just talk to my other Grandma about it. Me & my mom rarely communicate. I wouldn't have it any other way to be honest.
I know that sounds bad but my mom is a horrible person. I have what they call a "Mammy" not a "Mother" their's a huge difference. Plus my Grandma is a huge pushover. Keeping a good child sheltered made me miss out on a lot in my childhood & teenage years. Now that I'm comfortable with myself & following my dreams I don't care for anyone's opinion on my lifestyle anymore.
I ain't coming out. I mean most people would probably accept it (or maybe not? ) but the truth is I am disgusted and ashamed of my sexuality. How I want them to accept me when I don't accept myself?
I know I am gay and I know for many years but I just can't deal with it. It's sad. I don't know what will happen.
I ain't coming out. I mean most people would probably accept it (or maybe not? ) but the truth is I am disgusted and ashamed of my sexuality. How I want them to accept me when I don't accept myself?
I know I am gay and I know for many years but I just can't deal with it. It's sad. I don't know what will happen.
you just have to accept it...
if you know that you truly cannot help it and that it's a natural part of who you are, that's all you need to know. you have to let go of whatever is telling you that it's not natural or that it's wrong because both of those accusations are false.
I told my parents i was bi when i turned 19, they were ok with it and that's the end , i have lucky that my parents think in that way, even my mom loves gaga , everyone in my family got artpop as a gif in december x2. Anyway i have a girlfrind right now and i think my dad has the hope we get marry, it may happens.
The first person I told was fine with it. 2nd person was extremely happy. 3rd person was extremely happy too (but that's because they were gay and wanted to date me). My sister cried and hugged me, and we talked about it for a few hours, she was really supportive. My mom was awkward. Said she was happy I wouldn't get a girl pregnant, but was sad that she wouldn't have grandchildren.
if you know that you truly cannot help it and that it's a natural part of who you are, that's all you need to know. you have to let go of whatever is telling you that it's not natural or that it's wrong because both of those accusations are false.
Well I accepted it ...(I remember when I was like 12 and started to like dicks, I made promises to myself that I'll never ever **** with any man etc ). Now I get that it is what it is and it's not my fault and it can't be changed. I still hate myself though I can't let myself being happy and I am afraid even though I don't really have to be. ****ed up.
Came out my Junior year of high school. First to my best friends, then to mom, then to everyone else.
No one ever said a bad word to me about it and my whole entire family was very accepting. Never had any problems. Pretty boring story but a great experience overall.
I plan to come out in a few months once I graduate high school to all my close friends (even though a few of them know since I have told them). I will fully come out as bisexual in college though since I will most likely be in a new city and want to live my life the way I want to. The only way I would come out to my parents is if I am in a serious relationship with a guy, but other than that they really do not need to know honestly.
(I posted in this thread already but I've put some more thought into it since)
I threatened to leave I made up this imaginary place I was going to I was so serious...Mind you my ass had not one place to go but I took a leap of faith.
lol I literally had kept it secret for the last 4-5 years before I told my mum a few months back (why do I feel like i've told this story before?)
anyway had just broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years and was upset, I had told a close friend and they kept saying i should tell my mum, anyway i was already upset and was trying to act normal, because everyone thought i was single.
my mum kept asking are you alright, you don't seem yourself, and so i wrote it all down and told her to read it, and she read it and was like "is this a joke? really?", and i was like yeah and she obviously was trying to digest it, so asked a few questions and that was it, the next day she came back with more questions, i told her the truth and that was that, me and my mum are as close as we were before.
she also told her two friends, i told one of my brothers (other brother is too young to understand yet) and another two friends, one of which came out recently, who I grew up with and is like a brother to me and my brothers, I dunno if I had anything to do with it though
) but the truth is I am disgusted and ashamed of my sexuality. 
How I want them to accept me when I don't accept myself?
, i have lucky that my parents think in that way, even my mom loves gaga 
). Now I get that it is what it is and it's not my fault and it can't be changed. I still hate myself though 
I can't let myself being happy and I am afraid even though I don't really have to be. ****ed up. 