People here are definitely over-thinking it, I'm sure for post people it's a case of 'Might as well turn straight, no point in staying gay!' rather than 'Oh no, I hate me, I hate my life.'
If I went to a psychologist and said 'If they invented a pill to make me straight I'd take it. I'm not unhappy with my life, I just don't see a reason not to take it.' he'd say I was wasting both of our times.
I'm not 100% comfortable with being gay, but I like that. Being gay has humbled me and made me more empathetic to minority perspectives. I'd never want to grow up any other way.
Nope, people who barely meet me think I'm straight and I don't owe them a coming out talk, if they're compatible with me and we get along they will eventually catch on. I keep my private life private so whoever I chose to be intimate with or who I'm attracted to isn't an issue. Plus if I had an urge to be attracted to a woman or sleep with her I would go for it.