Like seriously... I don't seem to have a problem finding a man, but it's the good part that I struggle with. I don't get it. All of my friends say, "Well you're a common denominator here. Maybe you're the problem. You're a good woman, but maybe it's that your standards are too high or your sense of judgment sucks". So here I am, single again (I think). What is wrong with me? I don't feel like I'm picky. I prefer a guy that's smart, ambitious, and that can make me laugh. I mean I'd prefer for them to be tall, dark, and handsome, but that's not a necessity.
Am I picky? Or are men intimidated by me? (I'm educated and independent. I'm not a basic bitch.)
Am I the only one who struggles finding a good man? What is it girls? What's your secret? Are there ANY good men out there? I'm losing hope
It's funny though because I thought I had found him. Everyone was saying my standards are too high, so I lowered them. I started talking to a guy that had been arrested 17 times and currently on probation (Red Flag I know). I believe in second chances though and he genuinely seemed to be getting his life back together. He's amazing, but I haven't heard from this ***** since like Halloween night so either he's gotten arrested AGAIN or he's completely ignoring me
What do you mean by GOOD men? The world is made up of more than the few you have dated?
You just gotta dig a little deeper.
I just want a man who makes me smile and goals, with dreams and goals in life, who sees me as his equal, his partner, smart, values family, honest, loyal... I mean is that hard to ask for?
It's funny though because I thought I had found him. Everyone was saying my standards are too high, so I lowered them. I started talking to a guy that had been arrested 17 times and currently on probation (Red Flag I know). I believe in second chances though and he genuinely seemed to be getting his life back together. He's amazing, but I haven't heard from this ***** since like Halloween night so either he's gotten arrested AGAIN or he's completely ignoring me 
The world is made up of more than the few you have dated? 
Gee thanks, Muggwa.